old post - condition

i wrote this post some days back but was unable to post :-

two of my friends are in love now days. one of them tells me about it and another one doesn't. but their conditions are not awfully different. they both have felled for the respective other person for different reasons but their condition is nearly the same, they both are incapable to understand why they are into the condition they are in.

the problem is graver than whe can comprehend; no, i am not being specific to these two but this kind of condition and the cause in general. here the problem is that you have to give more than 100% to get someone feel for you. sometimes you give this 100% unknowingly and sometimes you do it knowingly and the stage comes when you are so deep in ths muck(the usage is intentional) that you feel yourself trapped in unable to get out of it. this is the time when you start cursing the other person and term her/him as the reason for all your woes.

but all said and done, what is the way out? (you are requested to answer this particular question if you feel like, in comments)

My suggestions are :-
1 - F&F (find and flirt) ;-)

2 - Be the hunter, not the hunted ;-)