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how can you fall in love when you are into such a stressful job, of monitoring service 24x7, as mine? ;) :D
i know everybody would agree with me that one can not. then how in the world can they show that guy whose job is a bit more stressful than mine watching stars in her eyes. how can she sing beautiful songs and how can they smile for each other and how can they both embrace each other. i mean in a situation where being happy is an achievement, how can they nurture such feelings?
i was questioning a thing about yahaan (the jimmy shergill and that cutie' finding love with kashmir insurgency in background movie) in one of my earlier post. today i saw about 45 minutes of that movie in which love seem to overwhelm all the 'stress', unhappiness and fear. and without questioning all the technical glitches that i could have found in that movie which would have betrayed my genuine appreciation for the embarrassment (you can't beat that when you watch a genuine and classically portrayed love scenery) that i felt, i just questioned the bloom...
so i just want to ask those stressed out people out there, is this possible?
i know everybody would agree with me that one can not. then how in the world can they show that guy whose job is a bit more stressful than mine watching stars in her eyes. how can she sing beautiful songs and how can they smile for each other and how can they both embrace each other. i mean in a situation where being happy is an achievement, how can they nurture such feelings?
i was questioning a thing about yahaan (the jimmy shergill and that cutie' finding love with kashmir insurgency in background movie) in one of my earlier post. today i saw about 45 minutes of that movie in which love seem to overwhelm all the 'stress', unhappiness and fear. and without questioning all the technical glitches that i could have found in that movie which would have betrayed my genuine appreciation for the embarrassment (you can't beat that when you watch a genuine and classically portrayed love scenery) that i felt, i just questioned the bloom...
so i just want to ask those stressed out people out there, is this possible?
posted by burf at
2:30 PM
11 Comments:
Love might not be able to overwhelm all the 'stress' but i don't think that a person with a stressed out life can't be in love...or can't find solace in his/her love's arms...can't feel relieved when in his company.
surely our hindi movies go overboard with whatever emotion they try to portray and real life is different but the situation that u mention might not be impossible.rather it is very normal!
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Richa, at October 10, 2005 3:33 PM
ofcourse people in stress can be n love,rather they have all the more need for the affection and given a hand they wd take it first but about movies ..they overdo it..just remebered a phrase a freind used.."life is not a movie..good guys loose..endings are not always happy and love does not conquer all..."
i liked it ...but then back to ur post love surely is a stress buster..
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Anonymous, at October 10, 2005 3:51 PM
@stranger - maybe
@anony - maybe
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burf, at October 10, 2005 6:04 PM
mayb nai for sure!!!
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Anonymous, at October 10, 2005 11:09 PM
Time is not an essential for falling in love. Yes, maintaining a relationship sure requires time...
PS: Can you increase the font of your posts? It really 'stresses' my eyes ;)
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Casablanca, at October 11, 2005 6:46 AM
love... what on earth is that buddy?
you start your post with the words... "how can you fall in love"... well if it was falling to start with... it was not love at all... hehehe...
about the stressful jobs and the works schedules.. i have to agree with you somewhere...
infact its not difficult to actually "fall in love" but is difficult is to keep it going !!! you need time for your job.. which actually takes more then 15 hours for me these days... and then you also need time for yourself.. which i miss the most these days... and then if you have time.. you give it to your sweetheart... which usually is not there...
at the stage of life where i am.. emotions for some human is the last thing on my mind... except for ma parents... however i would always like to be around ppl who are close to me...
whatever said and done... Emotional dependence is a big NO NO... if you are working, or not.. does not matter....
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~ ॐ ~, at October 11, 2005 9:22 AM
@anony - kya jabardasti hai ye...?
@casa - i m working on increasing the font size... tnx for enlighting suggestion :D
@om - so u r the one who is agreeing with me, right? this makes the score 1 - 3. all the votes against my point coming from females... does that indicate something about girls?
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burf, at October 11, 2005 1:54 PM
yaa it does indicate something---great minds think alike.. ;-p
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Anonymous, at October 11, 2005 4:10 PM
ofcourse it is possible..thats the magic of love...
By
alice, at October 11, 2005 4:42 PM
@anony - "great"...? LOL
@alice - hey alice welcome back. :D. u were the 1st one who was confident.
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burf, at October 11, 2005 6:25 PM
I think it's more possible to fall in love in stressful circumstances. Love obviously eases one's mind and takes them to a different level etc, thus making the stressful life more bearable and, in fact, even more acceptable.
By
the cowlick, at October 15, 2005 9:07 PM
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