anger
why do we get angry?
we get angry when:-
1. someone has criticised us.
2. someone has offended us.
3. someone has abused us.
4. someone has done some damage to us.
i guess it is very much justified to be angry in case number 2 and 3 but in case number 4 i guess if we will get angry and try to retaliate it might backfire, so i guess we should give ourselves some time before getting angry in that case.
if it is case number 1 than we must contemplate the reason as to why the person criticised us. (s)he might be right in doing so. and if you can't believe that (s)he can be correct sometimes than you are a poor person.
we get angry when:-
1. someone has criticised us.
2. someone has offended us.
3. someone has abused us.
4. someone has done some damage to us.
i guess it is very much justified to be angry in case number 2 and 3 but in case number 4 i guess if we will get angry and try to retaliate it might backfire, so i guess we should give ourselves some time before getting angry in that case.
if it is case number 1 than we must contemplate the reason as to why the person criticised us. (s)he might be right in doing so. and if you can't believe that (s)he can be correct sometimes than you are a poor person.
posted by burf at
5:30 PM
4 Comments:
about getting criticised... i guess i am one of the worst takers of criticism of all the ppl that i have known so far in my life...
still i feel that criticism does not mean anything unless it is accompanied by a way to improve and better things.. i or you or for that matter anyone in this world can point out a finger at anything because we all have an opinion to share... but for me personally i really do not care... unless it comes with a way to take care of it too..
also, let me say something about what i hated about ur "fledging" remark yesterday... when you told me that I was lagging behind on my html and web-technology skills, i could not take it because when i do not deal with a line of business, lagging behind or being good at it really does not matter to me... and similar is the case with html and related stuff...
i do not know if you meant to be a critic at that point of time.. or were just making me realise that i do not know about the latest in that field... i would still like you to know that your words would be taken better if you criticise me on things which make a difference to me.. anything and everything else is just words.. and nothing else... and i will NOT take it from you or from anyone !!!
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~ ॐ ~, at September 26, 2005 10:16 AM
@om - i wont reply about the psychological reasoing part because one's psychi can only be changed if one is contemplating enough or atleast trying...
about yesterday's issue; i know you and now i try not to get into arguments with you because as you know and i know there is no point; but yesterday when i asked if u can do it, u started with a tukka about how it works which beseeched by subsequent remark. and then u were as flared over my remark as you were ignorant of your own initiation of the argument.
@perverts - as ankur says it seems im in a love hate relationship with om ;)
:D
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Anonymous, at September 26, 2005 2:12 PM
peace is all i can say....
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~ ॐ ~, at September 26, 2005 5:02 PM
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