dilemma

i sure sounds a bit uncanny when we hear that a guy tries to strike a conversation with a girl who is a total stranger to him and asks her out for a coffee. i mean, i don't have first hand experiences of the firang society but i guess they people are a bit cool about it; in the sense that they don't freak out. a dude approaching a PYT and asking if she would care for a coffee along after few stares (i mean here you shld not approach a female even if she seems to be responding to your smile - if you are complete strangers who bumped into one another in front of music world).

here if you approach a stranger girl, the girl even if interested would not respond thinking that the guy might think that she is shallow and the guy would penultimately wont approach the girl thinking that the girl would anyways wont respond thinking that he is too shallow.