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25 July 2006

some of them

some people are just over-sensitive assholes

they can make fun but can't really take it

posted by burf at 12:45 PM

11 Comments:

  • :)...name one person who's not sensitive to criticism...more so wen ppl are poking fun at them?...i don know any...do u?...

    i agree tho that one shudn't hand out what one can't take...

    By Blogger ishipishi, at July 25, 2006 6:05 PM  

  • being sensitive to constructive criticism is absolutely wrong [esp. when u invited it]

    and the point i was making was wat u said in last line

    By Blogger burf, at July 25, 2006 7:46 PM  

  • how many times have you taken constructive criticism and not given it out readily ,even without being asked for it?
    How many times have you not judged and at the same time hated to be judged?
    and who actually decides which criticism is 'constructive' or not? the critic himself?? could it be possible what is 'constructive' to you could be harsh and not well thought through criticism for the person criticised?

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at July 25, 2006 9:41 PM  

  • **and who actually decides which criticism is 'constructive' or not?

    I like what the anonymous commentor said above. Cos what's 'constructive' to u, may not be so to the other.

    Keshi.

    By Blogger Keshi, at July 26, 2006 11:49 AM  

  • anony, kesh - i would rather have a friend who i can criticise than one to whom i can always be rosy. ppl who dont criticise are not friends they never teach u anything

    i hope you remember a couplet by kabir

    By Blogger burf, at July 26, 2006 12:24 PM  

  • ** would rather have a friend who i can criticise than one to whom i can always be rosy.

    depends on how u criticised him/her. There is an art to that too.

    Keshi.

    By Blogger Keshi, at July 26, 2006 12:26 PM  

  • i agree with Keshi. And sometimes your friends are not criticising you, they're being downright mean!

    By Blogger Soosixty, at July 26, 2006 12:49 PM  

  • OMG.. To see burfi upset is like a rarity.

    By Blogger Mr. J, at July 26, 2006 9:14 PM  

  • ** And sometimes your friends are not criticising you, they're being downright mean!

    well-said SOO.

    Criticising a friend constructively doesnt mean this:

    "how dumb r u? u dun even know how to link up a site address - no wonder ur country is going down in IT!".

    Cos that's being very mean and distasteful.

    The 'constructive criticism' version of that line wud be:

    "I think it wud help if u learn how to link up sites...makes life so much easier for everyone blondy" :)

    Thats humor and not being mean.


    If u dunno the difference then u dunno the art of healthy criticism.
    Thats all there is to it. And if u cant admit what Im saying Burfy, then u got an ego issue. :0)


    Keshi.

    By Blogger Keshi, at July 27, 2006 8:40 AM  

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