4 questions
the next day [or week maybe] after you have formally declared your consent for getting into a committed relationship, the perfect one enters into your life...
1. does this happens?
2. has this happen to you ever?
3. can it happen? if it can then do you carry on with the earlier person becasue you don't want to break heart or you fear that there might come someone, who is even perfecter, the very next day [or week]?
now the most important question number
4. what do the other person do who knows that you feel that the person is the perfect one but don't [or maybe won't] admit (and this person do not know the answer - which might be answered by the questions above)?
just think that late comers = loosers? :-/
1. does this happens?
2. has this happen to you ever?
3. can it happen? if it can then do you carry on with the earlier person becasue you don't want to break heart or you fear that there might come someone, who is even perfecter, the very next day [or week]?
now the most important question number
4. what do the other person do who knows that you feel that the person is the perfect one but don't [or maybe won't] admit (and this person do not know the answer - which might be answered by the questions above)?
just think that late comers = loosers? :-/
posted by burf at
7:45 PM
7 Comments:
Yes it happens... not just after a day or a week, but might even happen after a year. And I would like to believe that I'd follow my heart in such a situation, instead of doing the "right" thing. Because, isnt whatever makes you happy "right"?
By
Casablanca, at January 07, 2006 10:17 AM
but thats not case with some ppl... is that point holds true in real-life situations?
By
burf, at January 07, 2006 4:42 PM
i agree to casa....listen to ur heart there is nothing wrong or right in this world...
By
alice, at January 07, 2006 7:27 PM
alice, casa - but the point is that ultimately that leads to unhappiness...
By
burf, at January 08, 2006 6:34 PM
If we had all the answers to these questions, wouldnt life be simple?
However, how do you really know that someone is a perfect one for you just a week after them coming into your life?
That said, Im not sure I agree with the "whatever makes you happy" part. Its not practical to think we can always be happy, is it? Does this mean we should do whatever we want no matter who it hurts, just because it may make us happy for the moment? and what after that moment? Will we still be happy?
My advice is, that if you dont think you will ever be satisfied with the "current" person, you should be upfront about it before it gets too late.
By
yum, at January 13, 2006 8:51 AM
no,
if u r satisfied with the current one [with whatever issues this one has], but then comes one who seems to be ever better, then?
By
burf, at January 13, 2006 11:20 PM
burf -
Have your heard that saying "The grass is always greener on the other side"? Case and point.
It happens in relationships too. But, it's hardly ever true...it just seems that way because of the relationship we're in. In a sense we *know* we can't/should have the other. It's the idea of the forbidden fruit that makes it so attractive. Not actual 'fruit'.
By
Our Catholic Family, at January 13, 2006 11:30 PM
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