what is it?

why do i feel crappy when some female swoons over a guy saying "oh boy! what a great sense of humour he has, i am floored" and don't feel anything when anyone says "oh boy! he's an iitian, how hot!!!", i mean both are expressions of amazement from someone impressed, and i know that but then why do i feel differently about them both. am i suffering from an inferiority complex from anyone who has got better sense of humour [or anything]? or is it just envy?